Make room for pleasure

I’m Rebecca, a sexologist, wife, mama of two girls and founder of Bloomi. After years of holding space for thousands of women, this is where I share what I’ve learned.

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FOR WOMEN IN RELATIONSHIPS

In love but want more desire, connection or spark

Mismatched libido or pleasure that got lost somewhere, and ways to get you back on track

Free guide: The Intimacy Reset

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FOR TIRED MOMS

Busy mama who needs more pleasure

You give so much of yourself and need gentle reminders to come back to your desire without guilt

Free guide: Desire After Kids

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  • A short weekly letter, personal and practical

  • Intimacy guides in my library, free

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Intimacy Education

After 10+ years as a sexologist, I have learned that traditional sex education often misses the mark. What kids, teens, and adults actually need is (age-appropriate) intimacy education that feels simple, approachable, and helps address concerns.

Learning about intimacy does not have to be uncomfortable or clinical. It can be tailored virtual sessions or shared group experiences like an intimate dinner masterclass that invites curiosity, connection, and growth.

Intimacy education has the power to positively change how we relate to pleasure and achieve our intimacy goals in as little as one session.

  • Teen years can be intense and confusing. Thoughtful intimacy education gives teens real tools to navigate relationships, emotions, and self-confidence.

    Common topics:

    • Sex 101

    • Birth control options

    • Healthy relationships

  • Many women experience barriers to pleasure or connection without ever being told why. I offer practical, evidence-based education to help you reach personal or relationship intimacy goals.

    Common topics:

    • Difficulty with orgasm

    • Removing shame from pleasure

    • Addressing low or mismatched libido

    • Improving sex communication

    • Getting the spark ‘back’

  • Many families want to talk openly with their kids and teens about bodies, relationships, and sex but are unsure how to start. This work helps parents build confidence and connection through honest, age-appropriate conversations.

    Common topics:

    • Talking about body safety

    • Supporting kids through puberty

    • When & how to talk about sex

    • Encouraging healthy relationships

  • "The intimacy dinner was truly life changing for me... we laughed, cried and bonded over conversations we didn't know we needed!!"

    - Ava, 34

    Group sexology masterclass

  • "In just 1 session she helped my husband and I put together our intimacy goals and we've loved the homework exercises :)"

    - Erika, 46

    1:1 couple session

  • "The way Rebecca teaches is relatable and healing. I grew up with abstinence only and struggled with pleasure. I wish I had talked to her ten years ago."

    - Abigail, 44

    1:1 session

  • "Rebecca has a gift. She connected with my teen instantly and I've noticed a difference in the way she feels about her body and healthy relationship choices."

    - Sarah, 55

    1:1 session with teen

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